Healing Relationship Intimacy
Who doesn't want to be caressed and held by their loved one. We can help restore intimacy and pleasure to your relationship.
by PaulaH
Intimacy is an essential part of any relationship and it involves revealing the real ‘you’ to your partner. Ironically, we spend most of our lives keeping our true selves from the one we love. All of us require and desire intimacy in our relationships and marriages but spend our energies in keeping secrets.
Being intimate with your loved one involves opening up your heart, soul, body and mind. To experience intimacy in your relationship it is imperative that your partner is well aware of what drives you and inspires you. What all in life moves you and why and what upsets you should be common knowledge for your significant other. You must be vocal about your goals in life so your loved one can be your partner in achieving them. Your dreams, enemies and passions must not be a guarded secret but if your love is aware of them and you are aware of your love’s passions, the relationship will only be more real.
Intimacy requires that you take off the mask you wear for the world outside and your partner knows you for you. Every layer of your true self including the fears, scares and scars must be shared with your loved one. It is the greatest gift of love that you can give to your love, when you share your innermost thoughts and feelings with them. Not every relationship deserves this intimacy either and sharing it with the person you spend your entire life with gives you ample satisfaction.
Intimacy is the act of complete and whole self-revelation. Though most of us dream of a perfect relationship with all the love and intimacy one could hope for, we usually fear revealing our souls to our loved ones. Any past hurts or abuse tend to push one into putting a protective armor around the heart and prevents from sharing all in fear of rejection. If you still tend to cling to the past and wish you were still with your exes, life becomes difficult with any present or future relationship. Since all thoughts are of the past hurt sentiments, you tend to attract the same in your future relationships too. In order to change the pattern of hurt and no intimacy, work towards changing your subconscious.
Begin with forgiving people in your past and believe in the person who treats you kindly. This may be difficult without pushing oneself to it or even professional help at times. Allow real love to walk into your life and open up your heart and soul for an intimate relationship!